Showing posts with label Kids' Specials. Show all posts
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Wednesday, March 1, 2017

Wallace and his money stories

Wallace and his money stories

Of the four children, Wallace, the second in the family, has a special affair with money. Its probably due to the fact that he is more interested in money affairs since young. Here are stories about Wallace and his moneys during the early school days.

It took dad a long time to decide that both Wallace, 7 years old,  and his elder brother Elliot, 9 years old, can handle money well and entrusted them some pocket moneys to be spent  at school or to be saved up in the camel “piggy” banks they each have.

Elliot being older was much more prudent with money, he ate the food taken from home and he saved up, sometimes, all of it in the camel bank. Wallace was much younger and he spent it all almost everyday. However, he always has a good reason why he did not save or save so little like twenty cents.

Story #1 

One day, Wallace came back and told mum that he did try to save but fail, here’s why.

“I almost saved thirty cents today but my friend Alex tricked me of the last thirty cents I have”, complained a very upset Wallace.
“I see, how did it happen ?”, asked mum.
“You see, during recess time, I just asked Alex how much would a pack of “Mamee” dry noodles cost. He answered me its thirty cents and he ran away. He came back with a pack of Mamee and put into my pocket and asked me to pay him thrity cents.”, Wallace described in great length.
“Perhaps, you indicated that you wish to eat Mamee?”, asked mum.
“No, I didn’t,” answered Wallace.
“Or may be you looked hungry and he felt you needed food?”, asked mum again.
“No, I just had my meehon by then.”, answered Wallace.
“Did you ask him to buy for you ? Otherwise, you do not need to pay him.”, suggested Elliot.
“Of course, not. You see mummy, that’s why I do not save any cent today.”, concluded Wallace.
“You and your money stories !”, mum exclaimed.

Story #2 

Another day, Wallace came back with one Pizza bun in his hand, waving proudly.

“Do you see this Pizza bun, mummy ?”, asked Wallace enthusiastically.
“Yes, what about it ?”, replied mum.
“Well, this is the strangest thing of all. I saw my friend holding this Pizza bun, and I asked him how much it costs. He told me its one Ringgit and then he offered to sell it to me. So, I accepted and paid him one Ringgit. The strange thing is after he received my money, he gave me the Pizza and returned two Ringgits to me ! So, I have two Ringgits after I bought the Pizza, and I spent one Ringgit with mee and save the other one Ringgit !”, explained Wallace.
“That’s impossible ! How did he calculate ?”, exclaimed mum.
“Are you sure you did not take it from him ?”, questioned mum.
“No, really no, I did not do such things. The thing is, he is quite a rich boy, I figure and he just decides to give me two Ringgits. He is also my best friend in school !”, replied Wallace, trying to explain his way out.
“Are you saying that your friend is paying you one Ringgit to eat that Pizza bun ? Perhaps its poisonous !”, exclaimed Elliot.
“Of course, not, don’t be silly.”, answered Wallace.
“You and your money stories !”, mum and Elliot both exclaimed together.



Friday, January 27, 2017

You should read once thoroughly - Effective Study Method


The following article which I read from here, gave an overview of how best to study effectively. A lot of students think that if they start revising early and do revision few times, they will remember and do better in exams. The truth is that we need to study effectively in order to remember the correct things. If we misunderstood a concept, studying and revising ten times will still make us arrive at the wrong answers as the foundation was wrong. 

So here is the thing to study well and effectively is to do it thoroughly the first time through and make sure we understand it as a whole and have the correct information. Effective learning also invovles active questioning and asking ourselves lots of questions. As soon as we cover one new topic, we quiz ourselves to prove that we trully understand. Then, we learn to connect new information to what we already know. Next is try to draw it out visually, the cnocept, the idea and what we can understand so far. 

The full article is shown below. 




The way most students study makes no sense.
That's the conclusion of Washington University in St. Louis psychologists Henry Roediger and Mark McDaniel — who've spent a combined 80 years studying learning and memory, and recently distilled their findings with novelist Peter Brown in the book Make It Stick: The Science of Successful Learning.
USING ACTIVE LEARNING STRATEGIES IS MOST EFFECTIVE
The majority of students study by re-reading notes and textbooks — but the psychologists' research, both in lab experiments and of actual students in classes, shows this is a terrible way to learn material. Using active learning strategies — like flashcards, diagramming, and quizzing yourself — is much more effective, as is spacing out studying over time and mixing different topics together.
McDaniel spoke with me about the eight key tips he'd share with students and teachers from his body of research.
1) Don't just re-read your notes and readings
"We know from surveys that a majority of students, when they study, they typically re-read assignments and notes. Most students say this is their number one go-to strategy.
WHEN STUDENTS RE-READ A TEXTBOOK CHAPTER, THEY SHOW NO IMPROVEMENT IN LEARNING
"We know, however, from a lot of research, that this kind of repetitive recycling of information is not an especially good way to learn or create more permanent memories. Our studies of Washington University students, for instance, show that when they re-read a textbook chapter, they have absolutely no improvement in learning over those who just read it once.
"On your first reading of something, you extract a lot of understanding. But when you do the second reading, you read with a sense of 'I know this, I know this.' So basically, you're not processing it deeply, or picking more out of it. Often, the re-reading is cursory — and it's insidious, because this gives you the illusion that you know the material very well, when in fact there are gaps."
2) Ask yourself lots of questions
"One good technique to use instead is to read once, then quiz yourself, either using questions at the back of a textbook chapter, or making up your own questions. Retrieving that information is what actually produces more robust learning and memory.
RETRIEVING INFORMATION IS WHAT PRODUCES MORE ROBUST LEARNING AND MEMORY
"And even when you can't retrieve it — when you get the questions wrong — it gives you an accurate diagnostic on what you don't know, and this tells you what you should go back and study. This helps guide your studying more effectively.
"Asking questions also helps you understand more deeply. Say you're learning about world history, and how ancient Rome and Greece were trading partners. Stop and ask yourself why they became trading partners. Why did they become shipbuilders, and learn to navigate the seas? It doesn't always have to be why — you can ask how, or what.
"In asking these questions, you're trying to explain, and in doing this, you create a better understanding, which leads to better memory and learning. So instead of just reading and skimming, stop and ask yourself things to make yourself understand the material."
3) Connect new information to something you already know
"Another strategy is, during a second reading, to try relating the principles in the text to something you already know about. Relate new information to prior information for better learning.
"One example is if you were learning about how the neuron transmits electricity. One of the things we know if that if you have a fatty sheath surround the neuron, called a myelin sheath, it helps the neuron transmit electricity more quickly.
"So you could liken this, say, to water running through a hose. The water runs quickly through it, but if you puncture the hose, it's going to leak, and you won't get the same flow. And that's essentially what happens when we age — the myelin sheaths break down, and transmissions become slower."
4) Draw out the information in a visual form
"A great strategy is making diagrams, or visual models, or flowcharts. In a beginning psychology course, you could diagram the flow of classical conditioning. Sure, you can read about classical conditioning, but to truly understand it and be able to write down and describe the different aspects of it on a test later on — condition, stimulus, and so on — it's a good idea to see if you can put it in a flowchart.
"Anything that creates active learning — generating understanding on your own — is very effective in retention. It basically means the learner needs to become more involved and more engaged, and less passive."
5) Use flashcards
"Flashcards are another good way of doing this. And one key to using them is actually re-testing yourself on the ones you got right.
KEEPING A CORRECT CARD IN THE DECK AND ENCOUNTERING IT AGAIN IS MORE USEFUL
"A lot of students will answer the question on a flashcard, and take it out of the deck if they get it right. But it turns out this isn't a good idea — repeating the act of memory retrieval is important. Studies show that keeping the correct item in the deck and encountering it again is useful. You might want to practice the incorrect items a little more, but repeated exposure to the ones you get right is important too.
"It's not that repetition as a whole is bad. It's that mindless repetition is bad."
6) Don't cram — space out your studying
"A lot of students cram — they wait until the last minute, then in one evening, they repeat the information again and again. But research shows this isn't good for long term memory. It may allow you to do okay on that test the next day, but then on the final, you won't retain as much information, and then the next year, when you need the information for the next level course, it won't be there.
PRACTICE A LITTLE BIT ONE DAY, THEN TWO DAYS LATER
"This often happens in statistics. Students come back for the next year, and it seems like they've forgotten everything, because they crammed for their tests.
"The better idea is to space repetition. Practice a little bit one day, then put your flashcards away, then take them out the next day, then two days later. Study after study shows that spacing is really important."
7) Teachers should space out and mix up their lessons too
"Our book also has information for teachers. And our educational system tends to promote massed presentation of information as well.
"In a typical college course, you cover one topic one day, then on the second day, another topic, then on the third day, another topic. This is massed presentation. You never go back and recycle or reconsider the material.
"But the key, for teachers, is to put the material back in front of a student days or weeks later. There are several ways they can do this. Here at Washington University, there are some instructors who give weekly quizzes, and used to just put material from that week's classes on the quiz. Now, they're bringing back more material from two to three weeks ago. One psychology lecturer explicitly takes time, during each lecture, to bring back material from days or weeks beforehand.
THE KEY, FOR TEACHERS, IS TO PUT THE MATERIAL BACK IN FRONT OF A STUDENT DAYS OR WEEKS LATER
"This can be done in homework too. It's typical, in statistics courses, to give homework in which all of the problems are all in the same category. After correlations are taught, a student's homework, say, is problem after problem on correlation. Then the next week, T tests are taught, and all the problems are on T tests. But we've found that sprinkling in questions on stuff that was covered two or three weeks ago is really good for retention.
"And this can be built into the content of lessons themselves. Let's say you're taking an art history class. When I took it, I learned about Gauguin, then I saw lots of his paintings, then I moved on to Matisse, and saw lots of paintings by him. Students and instructors both think that this is a good way of learning the painting styles of these different artists.
"But experimental studies show that's not the case at all. It's better to give students an example of one artist, then move to another, then another, then recycle back around. That interspersing, or mixing, produces much better learning that can be transferred to paintings you haven't seen — letting students accurately identify the creators of paintings, say, on a test.
"And this works for all sorts of problems. Let's go back to statistics. In upper level classes, and the real world, you're not going to be told what sort of statistical problem you're encountering — you're going to have to figure out the method you need to use. And you can't learn how to do that unless you have experience dealing with a mix of different types of problems, and diagnosing which requires which type of approach."
8) There's no such thing as a "math person"
"There's some really interesting work by Carol Dweck, at Stanford. She's shown that students tend to have one of two mindsets about learning.
IT TURNS OUT THAT MINDSETS PREDICT HOW WELL STUDENTS END UP DOING
"One is a fixed learning model. It says, 'I have a certain amount of talent for this topic — say, chemistry or physics — and I'll do well until I hit that limit. Past that, it's too hard for me, and I'm not going to do well.' The other mindset is a growth mindset. It says that learning involves using effective strategies, putting aside time to do the work, and engaging in the process, all of which help you gradually increase your capacity for a topic.
"It turns out that the mindsets predict how well students end up doing. Students with growth mindsets tend to stick with it, tend to persevere in the face of difficulty, and tend to be successful in challenging classes. Students with the fixed mindset tend not to.
"So for teachers, the lesson is that if you can talk to students and suggest that a growth mindset really is the more accurate model — and it is — then students tend to be more open to trying new strategies, and sticking with the course, and working in ways that are going to promote learning. Ability, intelligence, and learning have to do with how you approach it — working smarter, we like to say."
This interview has been edited for length and clarity.


Wednesday, November 16, 2016

Because I touched those cups

It was past midnight around 1:30 am, our son woke up crying and rubbing his hands real hard, "My hands are dirty. I want to bath." He kept repeating in between sobs, I was feeding the younger brother, dad had to give in for his wish of a bath at 2 am! I could hear his little bathtub being filled up with water and he went straight into it. I thought to myself, this is rather unusual, I know my kids love to bath and its play time for them but why at 2 am? Our son was enjoying his bath and I thought it might be the start of another episode of you-ain't-see-nothing-yet phase a.k.a. from now on, he is going to ask for midnight bath as when he fancies a midnight bath ! 

I got out of bed and checked on him, he was still washing and rubbing his hands as if they were dirty. I asked him, "You wanna to bath now because your hands are dirty?". "Yes", he replied me. "Why are they dirty?" I need to hear from him his explanation. His reply gave me a chill, "Because I touched those cups!"

My mind went back to that very Sunday morning. 

Every Sunday morning after church, we would have our breakfast with another family, it was the favourite time of the week for both adults and kids, they got to meet with their buddies once a week and its food and play time for them. One of our favourite place to dine was the Tom Yam Noodles place at Iramanis, a place of warehouses and shops. In between the two rows of shops, there was a pavement and in the middle, was a little red altar house. The boys were really curious when they first saw it, "Mummy, there is a little red house over there." "There are little cups lined up there with food and sweets." We explained what those are, told them never to touch it or eat anything there. The boys stood in a row, nodded indicating they understood but their eyes were filled with questions. They went away and jumping around. Then came that very Sunday, one of the boys came telling us, "Wallace touched the cups, he removed them." We came running and reprimanded them or being over curious. We asked him why and what did he do and I remembered saying a little prayer of protection over him and the boys. The boys were asking "Will the gods be angry now since he touched the cups?" 

I motioned him to get out of the bathtub, dried him and dressed him up in his PJ. "Next time, when we tell you not to do something, you must obey. OK ?" He nodded and promised me to be so. I handed him a bottle of milk as surely he would be hungry after a midnight bath. He was drinking from the bottle on the bed while I was praying that this would be it and no more issue from this. I even braced myself for him to develop a little fever arising from this ordeal (logically as he showered head to toe in the early morning and spiritually as I knew he has touched something of the spiritual realm). In the quietness of the night at 2:30 am, our boy softly recited, 

"The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. 
He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. 
He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness For His name's sake. 
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; My cup runs over.
 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me All the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the Lord Forever."

With that, I just knew in my heart that all is well. 

Some parents told me they do not think kids can understand spiritual things and even some say they let them choose when they get older. Our son was just 3 years old then, clearly, he knew what he did was wrong and something was bothering him that night. He seemed to figure out how a bath could help and I had to seal it with a prayer to make sure there be no more issue arising from his curiosity of disturbing a worship altar. 

Life for young families are full of daily fresh challenges, our kids are like little antennas ready to receive and broadcast what are in their hearts. They can be such "teachers" for their parents with their child-like faith. In our son’s mind, he thought a cleansing bath will get rid of the dirtiness. I am still amazed where did that come from. 

As to how our 3 years old could recite Bible verses, that itself is another story. I read somewhere that reciting the Bible is a good way to boost speech and memory. So I was teaching our eldest 5 years old Bible Verses during bedtime every night, starting with Psalm 23. I was not really teaching the 3 years old, it came as a bonus as he was listening in the whole time and one night he broke out reciting with the 5 years old brother.  

Psalm 8:2
Through the praise of children and infants you have established a stronghold against your enemies, to silence the foe and the avenger.

Matthew 21:16
Jesus answered, "have you never read: 'From the mouths of children and infants You have ordained praise?"


This incident happened in the year 2001 at J10 Taman Likas Jaya, our first house, after Malcolm was born (8 Nov 2000) and before Oct 2001 as we moved out of the old house at J10 Taman Likas Jaya. Wallace was about 3 years plus, so that could well be between April to October of 2001.

Thursday, February 18, 2016

Wallace Heng's 18th Birthday !




From Mum to Wallace :-

Two years ago, it was sweet 16. Today its 18th birthday for you, time to enter the adulthood highway. Cruise carefully and remember to stop to enjoy the scenery and meet with people along the journey. Life is a journey to be enjoyed and not meant to be rushed.

Happy 18th Birthday Son ! Growing up is too slow for you and too fast for me. Remember that Mum & Dad loves you all the way to the moon and back.


From Dad to Wallace :-

"The higher you climb, the better the view."

Co-latha breith sona
Happy 18th birthday, Wallace Heng.
God bless!
 — at City Chambers , George Square, Glasgow.

Saturday, October 17, 2015

Bel's Drama Recording

This was Bel's first recording experience at a local studio in Damai. She was quite tense with the headphone and the microphone but she sang well.


Bel recording in RAM's Studio Damai for the Christmas Drama






Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Bel's Private Lake

I always want my kids to be raised strong and ready for all the weather. I like them to try outdoor, be brave, run bare footed and catch butterflies and tadpoles. All that are not possible in the city. So when I brought Bel to Sapulut in November 2011, I did not expect her to get to do all that and more and thoroughly enjoyed herself and totally healthy and happy. 

It was raining heavily the night before, there was a paddle of water outside the center, just under the cross. Bel told me its a lake, "Mummy, can I play in the lake with them ? Please !"
Christabel's joyous moment at Sapulut on 27/11/2011.
Bel's private lake in Sapulut !

I think she finds that the outdoor fun in Sapulut is World Class standard. Catching butteflies, playing river sands, chasing the boys, swimming in her private lake ! She was 6 years old then, just joined GB for over a year.


 In this photo, she was completely wet, after playing in the "lake"!

Ha Ha ! I must confess I am not a normal mum, somehow I trust my 6 years old, she told me its ok and its safe ! She also added she wont get too wet (this she could not manage) ! I am pleased that she will come to me to ask to try new things ! 


She learnt so much in this trip about being Sabahans, having Native playmates, enjoying childhood. We even discovered how much she loved pets, especially cats. She actually begged to bring one cat home but it was not possible. 

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